Individuality
It takes time for someone in a foreign country to totally understand the society, the culture and underlying themes. I have been observing for 17 months now in Finland, and there are few aspects which impresses me most. Independence or Individual identity, this is what I like most in Finnish society. The level of independence an individual possesses and professes in Finland is amazing. I don’t mean to say there is less importance of families, relationships or friendships but there is a seamless integration of individual identity with all these.
Even if someone is in a relationship they have their own independence. The relationships here are largely symbiotic. Everyone has the ability to lead their life without depending on anyone else. College going students, young professionals, middle aged couples and even senior citizens, they all live by themselves. One may argue that man is a social animal and needs to live in society. In my opinion, the pinnacle of human development is true ‘individuals’ making a society. This can aptly sum up the Finnish society.
I don’t think this evolution would have happened overnight. Finnish history is quite complex and full of ups and downs. They had quite a difficult past and all the adversity nurtured the ‘individuality’ and created a virtuous cycle. Now the excellent social security network adequately supports this individuality. But this comes at a price. Finland is one of the countries having highest tax rate.
On a related note, result of a survey to find the Finnish feel-good factors.
1. Home sweet home, a home of one's own
2. Sunny weather
3. An honest relationship
4. A trusting relationship
5. The freedom to be oneself
6. A freshly cleaned home
7. Friendship, gestures/words in a relationship
8. Friendship, actions in a relationship
9. Fidelity in a relationship
10. Security in a relationship
(Well every society has its downside. For Finnish society it would be that Finland has one of highest suicide rates in world.)
14 Comments:
At 7:20 AM, Koi Pahailee said…
interesting info
sunny weather eh! :)
but whats the difference between
'an honest relationship and a trusting relationship'?
funny fin people.
call themselves Finn. hehehehe
At 9:29 AM, XVSA013 said…
abt Individuality at Finland ... well, this is common in all of western world isnt it?
>> One may argue that man is a social animal and needs to live in society.
living by themselves doesnt mean they are not part of society or they shun other humans ...
i prefer being alone, but i need my dose of interactions with others ... the balance has to right for me.
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points 1,6 are same
points 3,4,7,8,9,&10 are very close and interlinked to the extent i'll put them as one point.
the Finns want a good clean home, sun shining, and great life partner.
did the person who complied this list an MBA?? you know what i mean :p
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At 9:49 AM, greensatya said…
Koi - You totally crack me up ! funny Finn :)
There is a nuance between both, like - 'trust that the other person will always be honest'
Mowgli- Yeah, it is prevalent among the western world. And like you I also don't take that statement on its face value.
MBA haha, I don't think so. Had it been done by MBA then they would also draw four quadrants. You know it better.
At 10:01 AM, Casablanca said…
I guess in most westernised societies (and not just in the West... there are enough westernized societies in Asia :) ) individualism is present in a way we have never seen in India. 7 year olds, and 70 year olds, both take the public transport on their own and do their own stuff without having to be chaperoned or monitored... something I was totally awed by when I first went to Singapore. Amazing, isnt it.
At 10:52 AM, greensatya said…
Casa - That's true, there are many well developed westernised socities in our east which we forget in comparisons.
Yeah it is amazing and I totally like this concept of individualism.
At 11:17 AM, Abhinav said…
great info Satya.....i think there is lot of Individuality in todays youth in India too and still evolving in its own right (minus the moral policing if u like to add)
At 1:12 PM, Koi Pahailee said…
on what casa brought up, what I like about the individuality of West is the 'privacy' factor.
they respect your provacy and you respect theirs. There is no one poking their nose into your life all the time. Over here, its more of what everyone does all the time. And when I demand my privacy, I am labelled as 'outcast'.
At 2:19 PM, Freeze said…
maybe coz of all importance that is given to individuality and independence, the suicide rate is high. So, its not all that good to be alone. A person needs someone to talk to (relationships, or friends), otherwise he wud probably go insane.
At 2:35 PM, Y said…
That dont cut ice with me.
I need to live in a big family, depend on others, others depending on me....including dogs and all
At 2:44 PM, The Cat said…
Omigosh.
Highest suicide rates? I did NOT know that about Finland. Appaling. If they have the best amenities, this means they are so degraded psychologically? Thats something to think about.
At 2:45 PM, The Cat said…
oops. appalling*
At 3:18 PM, greensatya said…
Abhinav - Yeah, Indian society is changing as well. The demographics, living standard, family orientation etc are changing and we are seeing individualism there as well.
Koi - This privacy is a big issue in our subcontient. You ask a someone's full name and you will get even the salary figures as well. There is no concept of personal questions :d
Freeze - Definitely indiduality does not rule out societal interactions. But I think a true individual can add more to the societal interactions. The suicide thing is a sad fact about Finland.
Sher - The number of pet dogs in Finland could be close to number of homes, if that gives any ideas. So you like to be dependant on others, hmm interesting.
Aaki - I think hungary has the highest suicide rate and then comes Finland. People commit suicide at the start of winter and also at the coming of summmer.
Few of the reasons are "Long-term personal problems; illness, mental disorder, alcoholism, drug abuse, social exclusion and difficult living conditions may dampen a person's enthusiasm for life"
"Spring, the season, particularly aggravates the mental health of people who are already anxious and depressed. The mechanism that controls the neurotransmitters in the brains of some people is not able to cope with the rapid increase in the amount of daylight after the winter."
But as I said, this is one sad fact about Finland.
At 1:15 AM, Anonymous said…
You are absolutely right about the importance supposed to be given to the individual- the issue is how much importance does the education system give to individuality which incidentally s the literal meaning of the word education - Make your passion your profession
At 4:27 AM, greensatya said…
Hiren - Education and Individuality, interesting but essential connection.
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