Reality and Movies
I remember the discussion I had long time ago, with a guy, after watching the movie Jerry Maguire. He had asked me, “how was the movie?” I said it was good, rather terrific. Then, almost immediately, popped a question from me “Why do those, who struggle in movies, always succeed?” Though that time, the question was drowned in the ensuing laughter, it keeps coming back to me again and again. Does it happen this way in real life? In movies, we have someone struggling against all odds, listening to their conscience, standing by their conviction and ultimately they win.
I mean, wasn’t this the most important thing about that movie. The protagonist is kicked out of his job after his ‘mission statement’, which he conceived during his ‘crise de conscience’. The movie depicts how one can be successful, even after holding firm on the belief of relationships and personal values. So what if the protagonist was not able to succeed? What if he had not got the project or his client didn’t do well at the game. What would the movie conveyed then? May be the movie won’t have been made with this theme. But does this sort of thing happen in real life? Is it that easy to make a phone call, give a presentation, have interesting discussions in the board room and get the project? Well in real life, you do more than this and still lose the project.
So why don’t they make movies like this. Why does not the struggle end in failure? Are we so afraid to face reality? This might also be the reason that makes movie successful. If the movie is able to whip out the something, which everyone wants in their real life, but can’t get/do it , the movie becomes a success. I don’t know, but I would still like to see someone who struggles and then fails. Reality alone is assuring.
27 Comments:
At 2:47 AM, Unknown said…
Me first!! :)
I guess such movies cater to an audience that's seeking a respite from life. We have enough of reality in life, don't we?
There are several movies with sad endings,..that also become hits..i don't know a specific struggle story gone sour tho..will have to rummage in my head for that.
At 4:10 AM, Anonymous said…
Life is depressing enough at times, and I don't quite think ppl would like to spend time watching something thats going to depress them further.
At 7:21 AM, XVSA013 said…
agree with 'The_Girl_From_Ipanema' ...
At 9:38 AM, educatedunemployed said…
It is about hope.It is about the right values.It is about choices.Right VS wrong.It is about incultating, that there is always a possibility of succeeding without resorting to unlawful, socially unaccpetable means, because look people like Jerry Mguire did it so can you.It is about upholding what we stand for.
True,failure is part of life.Harsh realities in abundance than a fairy tale life.I guess that is why we have the news channels.Movies are for entertainment primarily and then for a social message if that.
At 9:40 AM, Anonymous said…
Agree with the previous commentors; most people watch movies to escape reality, not to see the same thing happening on the screen that they can witness in everyday life.
I for one would not want to see movies that have deliberately been made depressing. But if that's what someone wants, there are plenty of movies with unhappy endings - just don't go look for them in the "mainstream" sections.
Besides, people do win against all odds every now and then.
At 10:51 AM, greensatya said…
Ipanema Girl - There seems to be a consensus here. Yeah may be, respite from reality.
Duhita - Hmm, it just sounds so easy in movies and so tough in real life.
Mowgli - Yeah, everyone agrees with Ipanema.
EU - Interesting comparison between news channel and movies. Sometimes that hope can become false hope and it might occur to us that life is that easy, which it is not!
Sim - Hehe, that was good - not to look in 'mainstream' section. Example of people winning against odds in real life would be more reassuring, won't it ?
But I would have to agree with you that movies are made for entertainment and not necessarily for reality.
At 1:12 PM, educatedunemployed said…
I wouldn't give a movie as much credit.BTW hopes always carry the risk of being false.
At 4:59 PM, Raj said…
As everyone has already pointed out and u seem to agree, movies are supposed to provide a respite. There are depressing movies, however. Remember I once wrote abt "Requiem for a dream". That was a truly depressing movie.
At 7:49 PM, Neihal said…
as individuals we are always trying to be positive, always trying to improve always trying to suceed. we appreciate successful people, beautiful monuments, good weather. the point is to stay positive we have to create a positive enviornment around us. So we chose to see movies about people suceeding. I think moviemakers are sellers. If we begin to watch movies about people failing they ll make such movies. so its not them its us. and for a good reason too.
At 2:03 AM, Expression ! said…
My understanding is there is some extent of connection between real life and themes of movies.Unless some incident (or may be related incident) happened in real life ,it can not be narrated in a story.
At 7:54 AM, greensatya said…
EU - True, hope always carries that risk.
Raj - Yeah everyone pointed out that movies are made for entertainment, so they have to be of happy note. Does not matter if I agree or not, cause movies are not made for one person. I have not seen the movie you mentioned, will try to get my hands on it.
Neihal - Welcome here ! Yeah it is not them but us. People like seeing happy movies and they make such.
Sharda - well this is the point I wanted to make. Sometimes these movies show thing in such an easy way, so as to give a false impression about life.
At 8:54 AM, Anonymous said…
Movies are made for 2 reasons - at times to provide an escape from grim reality (we already have too many depressing things around) and at other times to shock with the stark reality.. (ppl need to be jolted into reality at times)...but surely no one would want to make a movie which leaves a viewer only depressed in the end, with no feel good feeling to boot.
At 11:32 AM, greensatya said…
Twilight Fairy - Well I didnt ask for portrayal of depressing themes but reality. I have often witnessed this. People think there is only Optimism or Pessemism, but I think there is one more, realism. :)
At 12:10 PM, XVSA013 said…
there are many movies which are made full of reality .. .generally known as 'art films' ...
its not that all the movies are 'feeling good' types ...
At 1:26 PM, Anonymous said…
stark reality != pessimism! it's realism only..
At 8:32 PM, Just Jane said…
EU described it most eloquently indeed. If you think you need to watch realism, watch Page 3, if you haven't already. Despite all the hype and hoopla, its ending was totally pheeka. The protagonist just appears to give up and go back to a profession she never believed in. She actually gave up her passion for a particular niche area within her field, because when she ventured into it, she found nothing but darkness and despair. Not to make it sound depressing, but she did not win against the odds. And life can be like that many a time.
I understand where you're coming from though as per your post. But whatever you do, pls don't watch the movie 'Being Cyrus', as Ipaneman put it, its more like 'Being Cyko' !!
At 9:07 PM, greensatya said…
Mowgli - Yeah 'art films' are somewhat to that extent. But 'art' films, I guess, are found only on Bollywood and I would never ever expect anything from Bollywood.
Twilight Fairy - Nope, just like not saying 'No', does not mean 'Yeah'; same way not 'optimistic' is not always pessimistic. I guess, I repeated my earlier reply. But how can you say stark reality = Pessimism!!
The Chosen One - Yeah, EU indeed put it quite beautifully. I can also understand the point put by all of you. See, I don't have issues from movies like "Forrest Gump", it is clearly not in any way related to reality. But "Jerry Maguire", this movie was trying to portray life of one real type sports agent. The struggle was reality, many of us go that kind of struggle everday. The success, which came after that - does it happen for all of us ? In real life we work harder only to fail again. May be, I will revisit this post sometime later in my life.
Thanks for the tip about Cyrus movie, will avoid it. :)
At 9:56 PM, P said…
I think movies are a form of escapism so if those 90 mins (or longer) give ppl respite from their own lives, then so be it! :-)
Going against the tide here, I think Being Cyrus wasn't too bad! It was beautifully adapted (from the book) and is very experimental for Indian cinema. It definitely makes an interesting first watch!
At 10:05 PM, greensatya said…
Perspective Inc - Hmm, I don't even know when 'Being Cyrus' was released. It isn't much of risk to denounce any Bollywood movie. Almost all of them deserve it.
The last year entry film from Bollywood for Oscars could not keep 'even' the judges from watching it till end.
I will see if I get the chance of seeing this one.
At 7:15 AM, XVSA013 said…
start watching documentries
At 8:36 AM, greensatya said…
Mowgli - Thanks for the suggestion :)
At 10:15 AM, Anonymous said…
Looks like you didnt read my reply carefully.. can u not see the '!=' .. or are u not an engr :p :)
At 10:34 AM, greensatya said…
Twilight Fairy I didn't get it. "!=" to me means exclamation mark and 'equal to', which in the context of your comment means (to me) stark reality is equal to pessimism.
At 2:32 PM, Anonymous said…
in simple english my comment meant this...
stark reality is not equal to pessimism! it's realism only.. (so you really never did any psuedocoding while doing ur civil engg eh? :) )
At 10:39 PM, greensatya said…
Twilight Fairy - In civil engineering there is no 'psuedocoding'(thanks) but lot of Psuedo force though :)
At 1:37 AM, Unknown said…
don't see being cyrus!!!!
if you do, i'll be curious to know your thoughts.
@ perspective: i didn't read the book, so i wouldn't know. but the movie failed to hold my attention. it was badly done... a failed experiment.
i want my $1 back! :@
At 10:37 AM, greensatya said…
Ipanema Girl - All this is making me curious about the movie. What is it about ? I have not seen bollywood movies for quite sometime (don't get it either. If I see it, then will do a post on it. :)
Andy E - Thomas Hardy,hmm. I have heard of him but never read any of his work. Interesting suggestion, thanks. Will look out for his book.
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